Wednesday 6 July 2016

Is there a typical week in our life here??

We are back to work 3 days after a wonderful time in the US for meetings and time with family and friends – our oldest son, Kurt, married a lovely woman named Annie! We are pleased to welcome her into the Fogleman family!

Already I have experienced many of the challenges that make this ministry difficult! As I listen to 5 boys behind our house play and enjoy each other this evening, I wait on bread to rise so it can be baked during the time that we have electricity for the oven.  Timing is everything! J
Monday our UMC District Team met to discuss the activities of the past week and to report plans for this week. Being gone for 5 weeks (with definite jet lag) seems to dull the senses and require special focus to get back into “work mode.” I’m sure many of you experience this after a special holiday!  4 flights over thousands of miles connects us quickly – but often leads to a different type of fatigue than hard work!

The best part of the morning was the “welcome back” from staff, serious prayer time, a coffee cake to celebrate a birthday, and the women’s Bible study.  I am reminded of the importance of relationships blessed by Jesus. Despite the news of many family members sick, 3 family members having died over the weekend, increasing prices in the markets, and insecurity in the surrounding area, sharing in prayer with colleagues – in 3 different languages – brings the reality of FAMILY to the center and brings comfort from the Lord to us all. 

The afternoon allowed us time with our health assistants and colleague Carolyn. Much had happened during our absence. Paper work exchanged hands as Carolyn left for Cape Town for a break on Tuesday morning.  The visit to the airstrip allowed many hellos and goodbyes – often the place to catch up on news from other mission partners and friends.
I arrived back from the airstrip to meet a young man with a problem to consider – usually I don’t imagine “solving problems,” I just consider what might be the best option to help. His wife and he were diagnosed with HIV (now on meds) and one child died in the past; another child was 5 months and not breastfeeding well. Could we help with formula for the baby? I see every child before starting assistance like this – to better understand the deeper needs of the family.  He was asked to bring his wife and daughter the next morning.

After a quick nap I drove off to visit the local market and the “supermarkets” for basic staples to fill the refrigerator.  Seeing local vendors and practicing my Arabic makes even this fun. The avocadoes, bananas, local coffee and flour for baking bread were the highlights!

The evening was shared with a lovely doctor couple from England who are helping with a church-run clinic and the county hospital for 9 months – their time down to only one month. Time shared was a blessing!  Getting back home, we learned an UMCOR colleague lost a baby before birth – tears and prayers ended our evening. Comfort divine.

Wednesday started with waiting for our new friend Robert to come with his wife and child to assess for formula. I ran to the shop to buy formula – price up again! Conversation led to mixed messages and wife refused to bring the child. Now the baby was reported to be a year old, instead of 5 month. He suggested I meet them at the clinic now. When taking insecticide-treated mosquito nets for the HIV positive clients, no one knew Robert’s wife and child. Much time spent but still confused.  That seems to be common in this young country where so many struggle daily to survive – and family trauma confuses conversations and a way forward.  Will we find out exactly what is going on in this young family? God knows.


Tonight we filter water for drinking (many visitors have stopped in to welcome us back – water goes fast in this hot climate!), enjoy pancakes and eggs, and finally see all the bread out of the oven. The table is littered with stacks of reports to compile and send to Global Health. Planning is starting in our heads for the remainder of the month. And I am praying for inspiration as I was asked to share the message at Erap UMC on Sunday.  This is typical of life in Yei – nothing too exciting but a blessing to live into the challenges and joys of life together with God’s help! Thanks for reading……until next time.